Writing this one purely to get some emotions out of my system –Flushing them out.
There are millions of serials depicting dramatically the stages of a girl’s life.
So my blog doesn’t really talk about something new.
The topic is general , thoughts are purely as seen by me.
I recently attended a very close sister/friend’s wedding.
All through the ceremony I had a tough time emotionally.
Not only on putting myself in her shoes as she gradually saw her world slipping off her hand, every tear of her was heart felt by me more because of my attachment to her.
It’s so very simple a process ‘Wedding’ after which a girls world undergoes this big big change.
True she gets/foresees another world approaching….a world which promises a lot of happiness.
Nevertheless that one delicate moment is so hard to handle.
Where even a minute thing like your room does not stay yours anymore.
While going to the party venue you go as one lot and when you do return you do as a guest under your own roof.
So much for the materialistic stuff, talk about the relationships-the feeling is immense.
One day one friend or sister or family member is top on your priority list and the next you have loads more to take care of.
I would want to confess that I felt like a typical mom may feel on getting her daughter wed as after the wedding the daughter is completely son in law’s.
Harsh but true it’s a tough thing to practically detach from one home and link to another.
No matter how long you have been out of house for your studies or work.
Such is the intensity of emotional entanglement we attain by birth.
Had people been married right from birth world would be different ;) :D.
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4 comments:
Very touchy, sensitive!
Your sister/child couldnt have expressed better the way you've done it, so perfectly so immensely. Feels like we shared the same drop of tear...
It reveal ur personaity dat how u r so emotional nd very sensible....
gripping and written with a lot of heart i felt..
Point to ponder:
married from birth:- probably this wld save one from the emotional entanglement at the time of detachment but then wouldnt marriage refer to a vastly different concept? I mean the emotional flow is probably a consequence of the sudden change one is subjected to but if you are into it from birth would you know the difference?
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